Myth: Methadone rots your teeth

FALSE. Teeth do not rot within months of starting a methadone program. It takes time, lots of time to have more than one tooth rot enough to be pulled. It is the amount of time you spent using that is the culprit. Years of not eating properly (and not taking vitamins), years of not brushing, years of not seeing a dentist for preventative cleanings will lead to tooth decay. A poor diet for an extended period of time will leave your body deficient in nutrients. Then your body start taking nutrients where it can, at the least vital place...your teeth. Once you are in recovery, you start noticing what you couldn't see or feel while you were using all those years. Your gums are sore, they might bleed easy, you have uncontrolled bad breath. You start taking care of your health and think you escaped any health issues. Then one day you bite into something and start chewing and....snafoo! A broken tooth. It is easy to blame methadone and since there is some amount of sugar in the liquid form. It might sound like a very logical blame to you. But know it takes years to do that kind of damage. Nothing you can do about it now except take care of what is, and do what you can to prevent any further damage. At the first sign (or before) of trouble with teeth or gums, make an appointment with a dentist. Don't wait until you are in pain, have an infection or break a tooth since there will be a period of waiting until an appointment is available. Worst case scenario:  having a legitimate infection with pain and going to the Emergency Room as an addict asking for an antibiotic and pain med. If they don't want to give you pain med, you suffer. If they give you pain med, you should give the med to a family member who can dispense the correct amount of tablets to you during the prescribed time frame. Until you are further along in recovery it is way too tempting to abuse the prescription. You don't want to make your situation worse, make yourself feel worse or lose any ground you gained while in recovery. If you made progress in recovery, be proud and ask someone to help you with your prescribed med!

The First Step: The Phone Call

So you don't want to tell your family or friends you have a problem with misusing substances or medication...OK. It's your life, but if you want to take that next step towards a BETTER life, then you need to talk to professionals who can help you with tackling this disease and head towards recovery. So it is a matter of making that first phone call. NOT always a  simple task!  You might feel a rush of all kinds of feelings that are very uncomfortable. Feelings you have numbed and shoved back inside of you all this time. One way to help minimize this experience is to have someone with you when you make that first call. It can be someone from a recovery group or local community service. Heck it can be a firefighter or a social worker or nurse in the local Emergency Room. All public service professionals will be willing to sit with you for a few minutes as support while you make your first phone call for help with your disease. If you have someone in your personal life with you at the time of the phone call, make sure they are stable, sober, not impaired and have your best interest at heart. FYI:  The first phone call will 1) give you basic info on the service,  2) info on insurances accepted or cash payment and either 3). make your first appointment for an Intake or put your name on a wait list. ***This phone call, entire conversation and any info given is completely confidential.  NO ONE can call and see if you called, NO ONE can check to see if you have appt or are on the wait list. NO ONE, period. Not even your mom! This is the law! A violation of this law can get a person jail time. So congratulations if you made your first phone call :)  I will talk about the first Intake appointment in another section with the word Intake in the title.

Do I have to tell anyone?

Have you ever tried to explain the mechanics of what is wrong with a car and how to fix it to someone who doesn't have a clue?  That is what you will get trying to talk addiction to friends and family who are not educated on the subject. It is a foreign language and a foreign land. Not their fault and not their problem. It's your problem and your recovery. Some family are open to the subject and if they are ....well, you are very lucky!  Not everyone is open to the subject when it comes to family. Could be pride, or maybe they are addicts/alcoholics themselves! Who wants to look in the mirror? If you don't have the support of family and/or friends then there are plenty of support groups and others in recovery you can turn to. If it's one thing I know to be true:  addicts will always accept other addicts and be there for that 2 am phone call when you really want to use. You don't have to be BFF, but some type of support is needed in recovery. Someone who understands exactly what you are going through and can listen without judging. With the opioid crisis going on there are many new hotlines, support groups, treatment centers and professionals in this field. If one doesn't suit you, there are plenty more to try.